Everyone that has said “if only I can change this about myself” or “If I did that”, raise your hands. Ok so I can't see your hands, but I used to a magician. And I can read your thought. Ok not really. Still, you don't need to see a show of hands or read thoughts to know that it's human nature to have thought or said those two things.
The flipside
By that I mean these are negative thoughts. “If only” or “If I did” come from that negative pocket in our minds. Many times when applied this negative pocket only gives acknowledgment to negative self thinking. In basic psychology you learn dwelling or leading with the negative begats more negative. What they also teach is some people actually are wired to think this way. Those people when you try to change or rewire them, it doesn't work. It screws them up. It can even lead to depression and other problems.
Which means
If you are that type of person who looks a life through jaded glasses, by all means do not change the way you are. Change how you use the perceptive to move forward. By seeing the negative you can trace back through to the why and what you perceive will cause the negative. Chances are if you can get a grip on what might cause the negative, you then can start constructing the how to avoid that cause and the negative outcome you are perceiving.
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